Tuesday, August 4, 2015

My Granddaughter



this is the most best thing my eyes as ever seen all my life I waited for this moment. to be a dad in 2months my beautifull daughter will be born thank you godin blessing me and my wife.
Posted by Robert Kevin Burdeaux on Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Thursday, April 2, 2015

The Art of Work A Proven Path to Discovering What You Were Meant to Do- #sponsored

Disclosure: BookLook Bloggers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book or advanced reading copy. However, all opinions are my own.


As a non-traditional college student and someone who is working on my BA in human resource 

management, I am always searching for great books to help guide me toward my career path. The Art  
of Work written by Jeff Goins is a great book for those looking for guidance when you feel lost on a 

path to success.

The book is filled with excellent advice for discovering what you are really meant to do. Broken into 

3 parts, Jeff Goins gives sage advice along with various quotes that motivate and encourage.

My favorite chapter is 'Why Failure is Your Friend'. I have always been taught it is okay to fail and you cannot succeed unless you fail. W.C. Fields said it best, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There's no point in being a damn fool about it."  How many times after we fail do we want to give up? Too many to count for myself, but The Art of Work A Proven Path to Discovering What You Were Meant to Do isn't a book about giving up, it's a book about what you are meant to do by not giving up.


Book Description

Jeff Goins, a brilliant new voice counting Seth Godin and Jon Acuff among his fans, explains how to abandon the status quo and live a life that matters with true passion and purpose.
The path to your life’s work is difficult and risky, even scary, which is why few finish the journey. This is a book about discovering your life’s work, that treasure of immeasurable worth we all long for. It’s about the task you were born to do.
As Jeff Goins explains, the search begins with passion but does not end there. Only when our interests connect with the needs of the world do we begin living for a larger purpose. Those who experience this intersection experience something exceptional and enviable. Though it is rare, such a life is attainable by anyone brave enough to try.
Through personal experience, compelling case studies, and current research on the mysteries of motivation and talent, Jeff shows readers how to find their vocation and what to expect along the way.
About the Author
Jeff Goins is the author of The In-Between, Wrecked, and two successful ebooks: You Are a Writer (So Start Acting Like One) and The Writer’s Manifesto. A professional blogger and public speaker, he also podcasts and hosts a well-attended online course, TribeWriters. His work has been featured at Copyblogger, Problogger, Write to Done, Relevant, and MichaelHyatt.com, among other outlets. He lives with his family outside of Nashville, Tennessee.
If you don't know what you are meant to do or just lost on the path to success pick up a copy of The Art of Work: A Proven Path to Discovering What You Were Meant to Do.

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Fairness Is Overrated And 51 Other Leadership Principles to Revolutionize Your Workplace By Tim Stevens -Review

Disclosure: BookLook Bloggers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book or advanced reading copy. However, all opinions are my own.

As a current college student earning my BA in human resource management, I am all the time looking for great leadership books. When I got the opportunity to review Fairness Is Overrated And 51 Other Leadership Principles to Revolutionize Your Workplace By Tim Stevens, I could not wait to read it. 

I like structure and Tim Stevens delivers. The book contains 4 different parts, each with various aspects of leadership principles. Tim Stevens lays out each principle so it is defined in what you need or should do to become a great leader. At the end of each chapter there is a 'Think About It' section that ask questions so you can think about who you are and what you want to be. 

My favorite chapter is 19 'Questions to Ask'. Tim Stephens 20 great questions every interviewer should ask a potential employee. My favorite question is 'Do you have any questions for us?'. This is a question most all employers ask and most of the time goes unanswered. I am guilty of doing it as well.  After reading the book, I am going to make changes in what type of leader I want to be and also what type of potential employee I am going to be.

Book Description

Executive pastor and leadership coach Tim Stevens shows readers how to create the organizational culture they'd love to work in themselves.
Profitable organizations require a healthy culture, and Pastor Tim Stevens knows the secret sauce for a vibrant and successful workplace. Drawn from his experience working at Granger Community Church in Indiana, where he leads a team of more than 130 people, and from growing a worldwide ministry-5,000 people in three locations in Granger and 1,800 churches in India-Fairness Is Overrated lays out a practical blueprint for success.
Short, digestible chapters-fueled by practical bullet-points, discussion questions, and real-life examples-give lessons and practical advice few leadership manuals teach, such as how resumes are worthless and Facebook and Twitter shouldn't be prohibited at work. Whether it's the power of switching off the iPhone in a meeting, balancing the visions of artists and leaders, or how to fire people with grace, Fairness Is Overrated is packed with practical tips for real leadership, every single day.
About the Author
Tim Stevens is a team leader with the Vanderbloemen Search Group, an executive search firm that helps churches and ministries find great leaders. Previously he was the executive pastor at Granger Community Church in Indiana. During his twenty years there, he helped grow the church to more than 5,000 gathering weekly in three locations and saw a worldwide impact, which included a community center in downtown South Bend, Indiana, and more than 1,800 new churches in southern India.

You can order your copy here.

Friday, March 6, 2015

The Leadership Handbook 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs by John C. Maxwell-Review

Disclosure: BookLook Bloggers has provided me  with a complimentary copy of this book or advanced reading copy.

I am a big fan of John C. Maxwell. My office bookshelf is filled with his leadership books. When I saw  The Leadership Handbook 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs available for review, I couldn't wait to read it. 

I am currently in college working on my BA in human resource management and one of the things I need to work on is leadership skills. I am not a great or even a good leader. John C. Maxwell's The Leadership Handbook 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs is about to change all of that!

The Leadership Handbook 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs is filled with 26 leadership lessons along with application exercises and mentoring moments. My favorite part of the book are the application exercises. Each exercise ask defining questions and gives tips on what you need to do to help you be a great leader. For example, in chapter 3 'Defining Moments Define Your Leadership',gives a list of twelve choices that you can use based on your values and priorities. This list which includes attitude and commitment is a great starting point to find out not only what type of leader you are but what kind of person.

About the book and John C. Maxwell:

New York Times best-selling author and leadership expert John Maxwell offers practical insight into learning how to lead the person who matters most-yourself.
The path to leadership begins with a question only few of us ask: How do I lead myself? John Maxwell presents twenty-six insights, not just for those who aspire to positions of leadership but also for veteran leaders who aim to build and improve upon the steps that led them to the front of the line.
Sound leadership will impact any endeavor, but sound leaders are prepared for risk-and importantly, failure-just as they point the way toward achievement. With application exercises and a "Mentoring Moment" to accompany each chapter, The Leadership Handbook presents a road map for a path many may cross but few choose to follow. "A leader," counsels Maxwell, "never has to recover from a good start."
About the Author
John C. Maxwell is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, coach, and speaker who has sold more than 24 million books in fifty languages. Maxwell was identified as the most popular leadership expert in the world by Inc. magazine in 2014. He is the founder of the John Maxwell Company, the John Maxwell Team, and EQUIP.
Order your copy today and become a GREAT leader!

Monday, February 23, 2015

Review:The YOU Plan: A Christian Woman's Guide for a Happy, Healthy Life After Divorce By Connie Wetzell and Michelle Borquez

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Although, I am semi-happily  married for almost 29 years, I was once a divorced woman and wished I have a book like  The YOU Plan.  I chose to review this book not because I am divorced, but to make me stronger and wiser so I do not make the same mistakes. In reading this book, I discovered two things: divorce happens and one cannot play the blame game.

If you are thinking about divorce or are divorced whether 1 day or 1 year, this book will change your life and help YOU understand and navigate through what is happening to YOU.

Connie Wetzell and Michelle Borquez  tell it like it is without sugar coating the realities of divorce because they have been there-done it.


Book Review-Clout by Jenni Catron

Disclosure: BookLook Bloggers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book or advanced reading copy.

I have to be honest, my people skills sucked! That is until I read Jenni Catron's book Clout. Clout is a Christian driver book about how to discover and unleash your God-given influence. Catron breaks the book up into two different sections, guiding you through sets of principles.

Clout is one of those self-help books you'll want to read over and over and is at the top of my list for encouragement and discovery of who I really am and how I can obtain God-given influence.

We all have Clout, but how we discover it and how we unleash it, depends on us and you will find the ways in Jenni Catron's book Clout.

Thursday, February 19, 2015

Lent: 40 Days of Renewal- Day 2: Your Comfort Zone


I think, ‘My bed will comfort me, and sleep will ease my misery,’ Job 7:13 NLT

Yesterday was the first day of Lent and I wasn't sure what I wanted to give up or sacrifice in my life because Jesus sacrificed for my sins, then I ran across a Facebook post with a link to Pastor Phil Ressler's 40 Things to Give up for Lent: The List. The list is nontraditional things to give up during the 40 day period of Lent and number # 2 on the list is Your Comfort Zone.

"Your Comfort Zone – It’s outside our comfort zones where new discoveries are made."

Today is the second day of Lent and I am giving up my comfort zone.  When my daughter passed away almost two years ago, I wrapped myself in a cocoon of comfort. I created a comfort zone and retreated to my bedroom and within myself. I was at a point in my life where nothing could comfort me except the safety of my bedroom. I didn't want to be around people, I only wanted to hide under the covers and never come out.

Most of us are guilty of wrapping ourselves in a cocoon of comfort. Why do we create comfort zones? There is no right or wrong answer, but what we do to break out of our comfort zone determines how we live.

Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23:4 NIV

We all have a comfort zone where we retreat and won't let anyone in. Although my comfort zone is no longer my bedroom, I still have one. It has become a crutch and instead of relying on God to be my staff in difficult times, I wrap myself in a cocoon of comfort inside my office. Instead of breaking away from my comfort zone after my daughter's death, I created another one.

For Lent, I have to give up my comfort zone and discover who I really am. I have to allow peace and joy inside my heart and soul. I cannot stay inside the warmth of my cocoon any longer or I will not grow.

Are you living inside a comfort zone? It is time to step outside and discover a new you. Break out of your cocoon and live.





Wednesday, February 18, 2015

A Video Tribute to My Daughter Ashley Michelle Burdeaux September 11,1985- May 27, 2013


Lent: 40 Days of Renewal- Day 1 Fear of Failure







'Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.' Isaiah 41:10

For the next 40 days of Lent, I am going to focus on the things in my life that are holding back my joy and peace. Phil Ressler has written 40 Things to Give up for Lent: The List and #1 is Fear of Failure.


"Fear of Failure – You don’t succeed without experiencing failure. Just make sure you fail forward."

In my life this is my worst obstacle. I have always been an overachiever and perfectionist because I fear failure. I tend to worry about what people will think about me or if I am good enough. I need to understand failure is part of life and sometimes it is okay to fail. Fear is an obstacle Satan manifested to keep people from enjoying their lives. Today I am giving up my fear of failure. What is your obstacle?

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. 

Romans 12:2 NIV


Monday, October 20, 2014

My Daughter- #MyFaithHeroine

 This blog post is part of Michelle DeRusha’s #MyFaithHeroine contest, in connection with the release of the book 50 Women Every Christian Should Know. Find out how to participate here. 

When I think about my faith heroine, only one strong woman comes to mind: my daughter Ashley. Ashley was my baby girl. Ashley was my faith heroine. 

My daughter was twenty-seven when she dies from AIDS related complications, but although she suffered, her faith in the Lord never did. However, my faith did. I could not understand why God was letting my beautiful, always vibrant daughter suffer. I didn't realize He really wasn't, I had lost my hope and my soul had withered.

Throughout her illness, my beautiful daughter never lost her hope and joy. She walked in faith daily. I tried to be strong, but my faith grew weaker with each passing day. My strength was depleted. 

I watched as she continued to struggle and I became bitter. It wasn't fair that the Lord was taking my child I screamed. As I tried to comfort her and make her last days as peaceful as possible, it was her that was actually comforting me and giving me peace.

She was not bitter about dying for she knew she would be in a better place. The last week of her life, I opened my heart and soul to the Lord. I began to understand her life wasn't ending but only beginning,

My daughter faith was so strong it gave me the courage and strength to not be angry with God.

She has been gone for almost two years, but her faith lives in my heart. It keeps me going throughout my struggles and helps me understand God's purpose.